Behind the Glass | #4 The Parent’s Role in Development
At The Hockey Hut, we spend hours every day on the ice with athletes. We break down stride mechanics, teach decision-making, correct stick positioning, and challenge mindset.
But one thing we know for sure is this:
Development doesn’t stop when the session ends.
Some of the most important factors that shape an athlete’s growth happen off the ice. And often, they start with the people watching from behind the glass.
As a parent, your role in your athlete’s development is massive.
Not because you need to coach — but because of the environment you create.
What Helps Your Athlete Grow
Here’s what we’ve seen work — over and over again — from families who raise confident, driven, and resilient athletes:
Encouragement over critique.
Players need feedback from their coaches. From parents, they need belief. Ask how they felt about their performance before jumping in with your own. Celebrate effort, not just results.
Support the process, not just the outcome.
Skill takes time. Progress isn’t always visible in every game or practice. When parents stay patient and trust the system, athletes feel more secure and focused on doing the work.
Focus on habits, not highlights.
We see the biggest leaps when families get excited about small wins — showing up early, bouncing back from mistakes, or applying a correction from last week. These are the moments that actually move the needle.
What Slows Progress Down
We say this with full respect: even well-intentioned support can backfire when it’s rooted in pressure or comparison.
Car ride coaching.
Replaying every shift in the car, critiquing plays, or comparing to teammates can erode your child’s confidence. Let them breathe. Let the rink be the rink.
Obsessing over stats or ice time.
Coaches make decisions based on development plans, game flow, and a hundred things parents may not see. Focus on what your athlete can control — attitude, effort, and consistency.
Trying to coach over the coach.
Your player hears enough voices already. When parents send mixed messages, it causes confusion and hesitation on the ice. Trust the plan. If you have questions, ask us directly — we want to work with you.
Our Philosophy at The Hut
You don’t need to be a hockey expert to help your child succeed.
You just need to be consistent, positive, and steady when things get hard.
We’ll take care of building the hockey player.
You take care of building the confidence that holds it all together.
Together, we create an environment where players can fall in love with the process — and grow from it.
Why This Matters
The players who stick with the game and succeed at higher levels usually have one thing in common — not elite talent, but elite support.
The ones who train harder, bounce back quicker, and compete with confidence are almost always the ones who feel safe to try, fail, learn, and grow.
And that safety starts with you.
Let’s Build Them Up, Together
Whether your athlete is just starting or chasing a higher level, we’re here to develop them on the ice — but we can’t do it alone.
Your role is just as important. And together, we can help them become not just better hockey players, but stronger, more confident people.
Thanks for being part of the process.
We’re proud to be part of yours.